Thursday, May 14, 2015

Alcoholism_Itch for society

Alcoholism_Itch for society

Paradhi community is one of the tribal community in India. It is mostly available in the state of Maharashtra. This community is economically, socially and politically isolated community[ps1] .
I was in the Shiroli village, Ghatanji Taluk, Yavatmal District. This village was having different residential establishments according to caste. Paradhibeda and Kolambeda were the two areas where paradhi and kolam community was residing. People in these two hamlets were socially, politically and economically isolated. Basically, we cannot say that paradhi was excommunicated due to four varna system in earlier days because they don’t have any religion. They were the tribal people. Due to their isolated nature they were underdeveloped. This is my first inference from my study.[ps2]         
In this village I was doing micro study on “effect of alcoholism on unmarried children”. My study confined to alcoholism aspect of people and their effect on children. But while interviewing families in Paradhibeda I have been exposed to stratified aspect of alcoholism. There were some different replies from Paradhi people on interview questions. In other part of the village people feeling shame to say that their husband, father or son is alcoholic. But paradhi people they did not feel any shame to say that they have alcoholic members in the family. They were happy and enthusiastic to give me interview. They enjoyed my questions and most shocking thing was that in one family mother was more alcoholic than father. Female alcoholic member was common in paradhi beda.
It is said that if any habit like alcoholism is a part of culture of any community it cannot be an issue but when it is denying development to that society then definitely it is a thing to worry. In case of paradhi community same thing has been happening.  They are not ready for any development because the first step to come out from any problem or issue is to have knowledge or realisation of the issue. Paradhi community did not have any feeling that their alcoholic habit was an issue with them. Due to this before three years when women were doing procession for banning alcohol that time this movement got support from all hamlets except paradhibeda.
Most vulnerable person of the paradhibeda was child in the family and her mother. Many mothers expressed that there were facing many problems due to husband’s alcoholic nature. They got -beating every night, children also got beating from father, 70-80 % income wasted on liquor. In this community people are getting addicted to alcohol at the age of 15-16 years.
I have taken interview of a widow. Her husband was died before 5-6 years and he left four children behind him. She was having 3 daughters of which elder one (age 20 years) was mentally challenged and also having addiction of chewing tobacco. She was having a son (age 12 years) who also addicted of tobacco. Most concerning thing is that mother the head of family was a hardened drunkard. Now days she was always on bed due to illness and liquor was major cause for illness but she will never cease herself to drink liquor. In future if something happen with her then what would be the condition of her children? Who will take care of her children? Already future of her children is dark. What are the possible ways to come these children out from this critical condition?
During my study I met a person of alcoholic nature in same hamlet. His name was Vinod Chavan. He was a staunch alcoholic person. I asked some questions which clearly shown his shameless nature. He had no shame that he was beating wife, children. He was enthusiastic to express himself about his alcoholic experience and also enjoying my all questions. He was answering shamelessly. Here also one important thing is that his wife also alcoholic. Both were under the kick of alcohol what would happen with children?
After experiencing all these things I am searching the possible ways for such issues. It is real development issue. This alcoholism is itch of society and need to remove from roots. But how?
Only one solution to this issue which I mentioned earlier that to make them realize that alcoholism is the major cause of your impoverish state. Apparently this solution can be effective but in reality this issue is very difficult to solve. According to one villager, there were many schemes implemented by government, few of them gave benefit to this community also but it had no use. Alcohol makes the community as well as social institution helpless. As soon as this issue is under control it will be the beginning of new era of development for this community.
This issue is not in control of any one. Only force is the solution. In the past this community was in the dense forest, far away from the development. There are some private nursery which is not interested to admit children from paradhi beda. Because it was general belief in the society that these children are of alcoholic nature, using abusive words etc. Today also this community is isolated mentally, they closed to cities physically but they still are in their forest life mentally. Worst thing is that no one is there to tackle this issue. Past generation has wasted their life, current generation is doing same thing and future generation is on same path. Alcoholism is spreading across this community like cancer and we are losing time in our hand. Only one concern is that how to save future generation from this cancer.
Pravin Maruti Bhikale
PDM XV
Tata-DHAN Academy








Sunday, May 11, 2014

अतिरेकी मन

कालच एक पुस्तक वाचल. स्वामी विवेकानंदांच चरित्र होत ते. उत्तम शब्दरचना आणि उदाहरणासहित स्पष्टीकरण दिलेलं होत. स्वामी विवेकानंद हे
व्याक्तीमत्वच अस आहे कि ज्याचा प्रभाव मनावर उमटल्याशिवाय राहत नाहि. आजच्या ब्लॉगचा विषय हा स्वामींच चरित्र नाही आहे पण त्यांच्या चारीत्रामधील एक महान विचार वाचला त्यावर सखोल विचार चालू झाला .त्यांनी अनेक वेळा म्हटले आहे कि प्रत्येक मानवामध्ये एक देव आहे. अगदी बरोबर पण देवाबरोबर प्रत्येक माणसामध्ये एक अतिरेकी वास करतोय आणि हा अतिरेकी त्या देवावर वरचढ ठरतोय. हा अतिरेक्याने आज माणसाला गुलाम बनवून टाकलाय. वाढते बलत्कार , भृणहत्या , स्त्री दुर्बलीकरण, जात, पंचायत ह्या सर्व गोष्टी ह्या त्या अतिरेकाचीच पैदास आहे.
आजचा मुद्दा हा धार्मिक अतिरका बद्दल आहे , हा विषय ज्यावेळी निघतो तेवा एका ठराविक समाजाला लक्ष्य केल जात. पण ह्याची एक दुसरी बाजू आहे त्यामुळे आपण सर्व आरोपीच्या पिंजर्यात उभे रहतो.

मी हिंदू आहे ,मला त्याचा अभिमान आहे आणि हा अभिमान हा इस्लाम च्या द्वेषातून आलेला असेल तर त्याला अभिमान म्हणणार का?
मी मुसलमान आहे मला त्याचा अभिमान आहे आणि हा अभिमान आहे हा हिंदूत्वचा द्वेषातून आलेला असेल तर त्याला अभिमान म्हणणार का?
गेले अनेक वर्ष आपला देश धार्मिक दंग्यांनी त्रस्त आहे , जागत सर्वात जास्त बळी हे धार्मिक दंग्यांनी घेतले आहेत .
ह्याच कारण हा कोणता धर्म नसून आपल्या मनात दडलेला तो अतिरेकी आहे . वेद कुरान बायबल ह्याच्यातील शब्दांचा श्लोकांचा मनला वाटेल तसा अर्थ लावून धार्मिक भावना भडकावायाच्या आणि माणुसकीचा गळा घोटायाचा. जबाबदार कोण तर समोरची मानस.
स्वामी विवेकानंदानी सांगितलेला धर्म  आणि आपण पळत असलेला धर्म जमीन आसमानाचा फरक आहे.
एका साधा विचार आहे जगात माझ्या समोर एक दुसरा धर्म आहे म्हणुन मला माझ्या धर्माचा अभिमान आहे .
तो धर्मच नसता तर कसला अभिमान आणि कसली धर्मिकता . द्वेषातून आलेलाला अभिमान हा फक्त द्वेषाच विष पसरवतो आणि अतिधार्मिकता हि फक्त अतिरेक्याला जन्म देते. समर्थांचे मनाचे श्लोक लहान असल्यापासून वाचेले पाठांतर केले पण त्याचा अर्थ आपल्या ध्यानी कधी आलाच नाही . कोणतीही वाईट कल्पना हि पहिली मनात घडते आणि मग कृतीत येते. मग ती साधी मारामारी  असू देत किवा कोणताही मोठ हत्याकांड ते पहिल्यांदा घडत मनात. समर्थांनी सांगितलाय कि मनाचे गुलाम होऊ नका आणि आज आम्ही त्याचेच गुलाम झालो अहोत. आज एकविसाव्या शतकात सुध्दा लगानच्या वेळी नवरीला किवा नवर्याला त्याची जात विचारता.  धर्म हा माणसासाठी आहे माणूस धर्मासाठी नाहीं. जर असेच दंगे होत राहिले तर एक दिवस माणूसच राहणार नाही तीच धर्माची सगळ्यात मोठी हार असेल.

आपण महान माणसांबद्दल बोलतो , तो माझ्या जाती धर्मात जन्माला आला ह्याचा अभिमान बाळगतो, त्यांच्या नावाने आपल्या मुलामुलीची नाव ठेवतो , त्यांच्या जयंत्या पुण्यातीथ्या मोठ्या उत्साहात साजर्या करतो, पण …………… पण त्यांचं चरित्र आपण आत्मसात करीत नाही , त्यांनी दाखवलेल्या मार्गावर कधीच चालत  नाही आणि हीच आपल्या देशाची सर्वात मोठी शोकांतिका आहे.

धर्मासाठी माणसाने माणसाला इतके कापले कि,
रक्त आणि पाण्यामधला फरकच कळेनासा झालाय
काश्मीरच्या  स्वर्गात पूर्वी हिमनग होते,
आता त्यांचा रक्ताने माखलेला वाळवंट झालाय .


............................................................................................………………………. प्रविण मारुती भिकले 

Saturday, March 22, 2014

भगतसिंग


जिंदगी तो किडेमकोडे भी जी लेते है.लेकिन मै तो एक योद्धा कि तऱ्हा जीवुंगा ।

भगतसिंग वाली मौत दे दो मुझे ,एक नही हजार बार मरुंगा ।

प्रविण मारुती भिकले 

Thursday, March 20, 2014

India



India has got freedom on 15th Aug 1947. Many freedom fighters had lost their lives, their families. After extreme level of struggle and fights we got freedom. Today I have a question that ARE WE ELIGIBLE FOR THIS FREEDOM? The Answer is NO.
India got freedom. India is politically free country but what about social freedom.  Today we are living in computer age but still facing problem of woman child infanticide, dowry death, gang rape, naxalism, corruption, terrorism, drugs addicted youth, no respect towards woman, starvation, poverty, farmer suicide, and draughts and so on. This would be a endless list. How can I believed that we are free nation.
Almost 65 years has been passed after independence but still India is developing Nation. Do you know the reasons behind it. Decreasing patriotism, nationalism is the main reason. Just compare patriotism of today’s generation with the generation Bhagat Singh. Otherwise it would be enough for any country to be developed state. Today youth from Metro cities and other urban and small towns are the victims of alcoholism, extreme bigotry and fanatics’ ideology. Tribal youth have big unrest towards Govt. of India. They got confused between democratic and communist ideology.
Recently there is a film named “the light “has been released. Class movie based on Vivekanand”s life. But it was flopped. But on same time “Grand Masti” was released and it was commercially hit film. This is a small example which proves that as youth we are not moving towards a ideal goal. Current condition of society has challenge the theory of Darwin. Darwin propounded that Human Being has been growing since stone age. His first step of growth was an animal (Monkey), then start developing and now we seen a fully developed man. Darwin’s theory is limited upto physical and mental development of human being. But ethically we are moving towards bestiality.

Yes we are ethically weak. We are belonging to land of Shivaji Maharaja who always treated woman as mother in same land 7years girls are raped.We are from the land of Dr. Ambedakar who gave teaching of secularism and  the same land is now become of land of communal violence. We are from land of Mahatma Gandhi who is symbol of peace and same land is now land of highest bomb blast after Afghanistan.
I AM NOT GREAT MAN OR NOT ANY MAHATMA , I AM JUST SIMPLE PATRIOTIC INDIAN. But always feel bad when I am seeing we are forgetting our national heroes. We are giving importance to our career, but easily overlook the Nation. We are youngest  country in the world (60 % youth) who lead by Man of 70 +.
Today is 23 rd March , Shahid Din, request you to please read it and think it........If there no discontinuance of above thing then that day is not too long on which India is again become slave of other nation.


Jai Hind.
Pravin Maruti Bhikale